It's tough coming up with something unique and original, but it's necessary if you want to stand out from the competition. But allow me to mention a few that really wouldn't be on the top of my list for landing guys. "Lonely Aquarius Seeks Fun Guy," "Marriage Minded Maiden Seeks Love God," "Committed Searching for Soul Mate," and "Mother of Four Seeks Family Oriented Male."

Are these women trying to attract someone or send him to an early grave? Do yourself a favor, never use the words "lonely, commitment, marriage, long term, soul mate" or "mother" in your headline. Don't you know that most guys are allergic to those words, at least in the beginning? Give him time to ask you out before you frighten the buh-geezies out of him. Dating is a process, and it can and should be a slow process at that. It takes time to get to know each other and to learn what both of you are looking for. Find out his last name before you start shopping for wedding rings.

I saw where one gal was seeking a long-term "friend." I hope she was referring to a plutonic female friend because I don't think too many